I hope she says yes! Karavar says: Oh gods! Did I say that out loud? I meant I was just thinking about Karavar rubs his face and forehead in awkward embarrassment. Annarielle grins at him, leaning close to say, very quietly Annarielle says: Yes Annarielle says I think now would be a good time for a little walk together, don't you?
Annarielle motions for Karavar to follow. Notice how Annarielle manages to gracefully finesse her way through the mistake too. She needn't nitpick on him, unless it makes sense for her to do so in the situation. Sometimes, you might not be able to reason with the offender in question.
You might get yourself punished for it. Well, you sent a whisper to McBeef, telling him about the rules. What do you do, and how? Clicking this brings up the ticket interface. Now you have an open ticket to write in! Just do it! Report him. In the ticket, you should add the following: 1 Name of the offender.
McBeef 2 How did he break the rules? They have logs, after all. Once they contact you, be nice, correct, precise and answer their questions. So here comes my experiences. Some months ago, Aran was addicted to drugs. He picked up smoking, and was often puffing on the drugs he was provided.
What would he do to get his next fix? How would this change him as a character? Back then, I brushed it off. Role-play is just role-play, right? These are just pretendy times! Why should I have to change what I do to make someone else happy? Was it not my right to role-play what I want? That is, until I was on the other end of the rope. I lost another friend over that argument.
I realized that I was a really big jerk. In both cases, consent was ignored, and it lead to disastrous consequences that left more than a few people with hurt feelings and a bad taste in their mouth. Thing is, that is a problem. A big one. To ask before you attack someone. To ask before you post their role-play on a website. To have a discussion about how you want these things to play out so that both players can enjoy their time together.
What consequence does it have? How much consent is too much consent? Is implied consent enough? How do you prefer for your RP to go? I want to experience all emotions, good and horrible, naturally, and then in the end, remember that this is a game to explore that kind of psychology, both positive and negative.
IC actions have IC consequences, and not everything needs an OOC conversation, but no conversation at all can be detrimental, especially in cases where role-play is headed into dark and questionable territory. Obviously this is a lot more serious than a little cheating, or some drug use, but in the end its the same concept- safer to ask than to assume, and wrong to shame. My general rule is simple. For major, public stuff among the rest of the server, get consent first.
And likewise, if you are told that, then you stop immediately , no questions asked. As I said in the other thread, I used to belong to an RP environment where there were actual consequences for being out of character at any point while logged in. The fact that we have to have a debate about consent though just fuels my anxiety over public RP. And if you do feel like it would ruin the immersion or interrupt the flow of the RP to ask for consent, then put a few IC feelers out.
Would be fantastic if we could represent -everything- with toys and trinkets, especially in the air, How does that work again?
I have had to be reminded to turn it back to IC and that is during events I am both attending… or hosting. I generally prefer to keep it IC, though. In the slim off chance for any random RP in quest zones.
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